To do or not to do...this is the question?!?!

Hey Friends...

I didn't translate it righ away cause I was a bit lazy this week :P but as I promised ...here it is :)

I've just arrived from a great weekend in Sao Paulo where I had an unbelivable event...

You know that kind of stuff that can change completely the course of your life?

So...it think this weekend was like this!

"You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight."

I'ts not exactly what happened there not even what I heard there but how we see what is happening around us, how we react about this and what we learn with this all.

"Emotions will either serve or master, depending on who is in charge."

Very often in our lives we catch ourself not living for us but for others..how? When we are all the time wondering "What he/she is going to thing if I do this? What if I say it? What if I didn't do....or didn't say that?" and doing like this we make up our mind not based on what we think but in what we think that others will think...if they are going to think if it's right or wrong "I willing to do that but they will think it's not right"

Now I have a question...Who was the one how decide what is right or wrong? what right they have to judge people?

Of course that we have to think before do something... I'm not saying that we have to go out doing whatever we want without think about consequences. What I do belive is that we have to make up our mind by our own concepts, our own wishes...and the question is:

Is it going to make you happy? Is it going to make you happy today but suffer tomorrow? Is it going to prejudice you or anybody else? Is it really what YOU wanna do? Is it going to make me grow?

I try to make my decisions thinking about this questions!

I'm fed up about think what others will think, this kind of things can drive us crazy cause we'll never know exaclty what others will think. When we act like this, in real, it's our own conepts, our own belives, our fears that are talking to us instead of the other person...so when we try to guess what others are thinking nearly always...guess what??? we are wrong...most of the time what they think is different from what we are thining that they were thinking. (even to write it's too complicated...lol)

Why? I don't know!

"Mystery are mystery...if the weren't mystery they wouldn't be mystery!!!"

Hahaha...very deep!!!

"The walls we build around us to keep out the sadness also keep out the joy."

Now another question: Is it going to work all the time? Will I always get right on my decisions?

Answer: NO...but at least I took a chance!

We are able to learn even more from our mistakes. When we do something wrong usually we take sometime to analyse "where the mistake was?" and doing like this we can learn by it. But when we are right we rarely ask "where the correct point was?"

So let's not be selfish but let's live our lives according to what we think that is better for us and not according what others will think about us...and once you did something, once you said and maybe it wasn't liek you wish let's not allow ourselves the pain of regret our fault feelings....let's learn and not cry!

That's it!!! KISSES, HUGES AND A GREAT WEEKEND FOR ALL OF US!!!

*all quotes from Jim Rohn